Pave Your Path
to Inner Peace
& live the life
your spirit seeks!
MY STORY & Book Info
I am Mohawk / Ojibway, Turtle Clan from Six Nations Ontario
with roots in Alderville First Nation.
I grew up in the city culturally disconnected,
a result of government assimilation policies.
I've spent my life reconnecting to my birthright.
Understanding colonialism and historical trauma
caused me to be compassionate and forgiving ( to a fault )
when it came to my partners abusive behaviour.
Turning pain into purpose, today I lean into my beautiful-disaster
and share the wisdom I gained
about the human condition
to help others get unstuck,
recognize their worth,
and live the life their spirit seeks.
Shame to Shine book reviews by survivors of domestic violence....
The author supplied real advice with real situations, and it made the transitions to the next chapter relatable and understandable. I enjoyed the emotional ride throughout; it most definitely displays the struggle for DV on leaving and the constant battles one fights in their mind – however, it shows that with healing, days can become brighter and much lighter. The reference to counselling conversations was a nice addition. - Survivor
Her stories are mine too, some of them identical. I realize that I am not alone in my experience; what I went through WAS real.Cher has a beautiful gift of choosing words to explain perfectly the complexity of feelings and insidiousness that transpires in an abusive relationship. – Survivor
Reading your poems felt like I was speaking my truth of what actually happened. The last chapter made me hopeful for the present and future, that we can shine the light that was dimmed for too long. I would definitely recommend this book to another person who is in any stage of recovery or to anyone wanting to understand and offer support to survivors. - Survivor
Hello
BIOGRAPHY
Cher Obediah is Mohawk / Ojibway, Turtle Clan from Six Nations Ontario, with roots in Alderville First Nation.
She is a multidisciplinary creative as a filmmaker, author, artist, and speaker. She uses her gift of storytelling to illuminate complex topics in a relatable way.
After navigating cultural confusion, disconnection and an abusive relationship she’s passionate about educating on the effects of colonization.
Cher is committed to fostering healthy relations and inner peace by sharing foundational practices that have transformed her life. She promotes the importance of being a good ancestor and embracing self-reconciliation as a precursor to collective allyship. She contributes to projects that focus on healing and transformation, equality and inclusion, Indigenous elevation, domestic violence, everything art, and content that inspires others to recognize their worth.
Cher is recognized as Canada’s first Canfitpro’s Got Talent winner for her powwow dancing, received the Truly Independent Award from the Hamilton Film Festival, and was honoured with the 2020 City of Hamilton Media Arts Award.
TALK TOPICS
TURNING PAIN INTO PURPOSE
personal story, the psychology of domestic violence, honouring emotions,
using our gifts to serve, healing poetry
ACHIEVING INNER PEACE
cognitive reconstruction, emotional ownership, meeting sadness with compassion,
radical acceptance, the medicine wheel and holistic health
RECONCILIATION & CALLS TO ACTION
Historical truth,
being a good ally, calls to action & individual implementation
NARCISSISM - PATTERNS & PROTECTION
different types of narcissism
identifying traits
practical strategies & how to avoid the trap
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
understanding each other and ourselves, altering relationship dynamics, lifting the layers,
healthy communication, what is an Indigenous healing circle
MINDFULNESS
why conscious awareness is the future, group breath work,
getting started with meditation, what are chakras,
the science of energy, frequency and vibration,
the transformative power of nature, strengthening intuition
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
what is EI, becoming self-aware, understanding others, how stress affects the body,
transforming flight or fight into rest and repair
AND MORE ...
RAISE YOUR VIBRATION, FIND FORGIVENESS, HOLISTIC HEALING
UNTANGLING THE TRAUMA BOND, HONORING YOUR AUTHENTICITY
GETTING UNSTUCK, MANIPULATION DETECTION
( short films / screenings and discussions )
I'm on a mission to change the way people see domestic violence,
to change the way victims see themselves and to eradicate
emotional mismanagement!
Alysha Main
Executive Director, Westdale Theatre
Cher is more than a speaker; she's a catalyst for conversation and change. Her confident stage presence, infectious enthusiasm, knowledge, and ability to connect with audiences make her an invaluable contributor to any event. She leaves an indelible mark, and inspires action on important issues. I wholeheartedly recommend Cher for any speaking engagement.
Mo Hagan CEO Canfitpro
You are an inspiration my friend and I have a new perspective for how I approach my morning and nighttime reflection.
Much gratitude!
Wayne - Aviva Canada
Thank you so much Cher for deepening our understanding of the purpose of Truth & Reconciliation. Your message has resonated deeply within us.
Michelle, PNSG
The Medicine Wheel presentation was very meaningful and empowering, thank you!.
SHAME TO SHINE AVAILABLE...
The City & The City Books, Ottawa St Hamilton
Iroqrafts - Six Nations
Art & You inc. Arts Centre - Grimsby
or email below
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