Pave Your Path
to Inner Peace
& live the life
your spirit seeks!
MY STORY & Book Info
I am Mohawk / Ojibway, Turtle Clan from Six Nations Ontario
with roots in Alderville First Nation.
I grew up in the city culturally disconnected,
a result of government assimilation policies.
I've spent my life reconnecting to my birthright.
Understanding colonialism and historical trauma
caused me to be compassionate and forgiving ( to a fault )
when it came to my partners abusive behaviour.
Turning pain into purpose, today I lean into my beautiful-disaster
and share the wisdom I gained
about the human condition
to help others get unstuck,
recognize their worth,
and live the life their spirit seeks.
Shame to Shine book reviews by survivors of domestic violence....
The author supplied real advice with real situations, and it made the transitions to the next chapter relatable and understandable. I enjoyed the emotional ride throughout; it most definitely displays the struggle for DV on leaving and the constant battles one fights in their mind – however, it shows that with healing, days can become brighter and much lighter. The reference to counselling conversations was a nice addition. - Survivor
Her stories are mine too, some of them identical. I realize that I am not alone in my experience; what I went through WAS real.Cher has a beautiful gift of choosing words to explain perfectly the complexity of feelings and insidiousness that transpires in an abusive relationship. – Survivor
Reading your poems felt like I was speaking my truth of what actually happened. The last chapter made me hopeful for the present and future, that we can shine the light that was dimmed for too long. I would definitely recommend this book to another person who is in any stage of recovery or to anyone wanting to understand and offer support to survivors. - Survivor
Hello
BIOGRAPHY
Cher Obediah is Mohawk / Ojibway, Turtle Clan from Six Nations Ontario, with roots in Alderville First Nation.
She is a multidisciplinary creative as a filmmaker, author, artist, and speaker. She uses her gift of storytelling to illuminate complex topics in a relatable way.
After navigating cultural confusion, disconnection and an abusive relationship she’s passionate about educating on the effects of colonization.
Cher is committed to fostering healthy relations and inner peace by sharing foundational practices that have transformed her life. She promotes the importance of being a good ancestor and embracing self-reconciliation as a precursor to collective allyship. She contributes to projects that focus on healing and transformation, equality and inclusion, Indigenous elevation, domestic violence, everything art, and content that inspires others to recognize their worth.
Cher is recognized as Canada’s first Canfitpro’s Got Talent winner for her powwow dancing, received the Truly Independent Award from the Hamilton Film Festival, and was honoured with the 2020 City of Hamilton Media Arts Award.
TALK TOPICS
TRANSCENDING TRAUMA
managing triggers, cognitive reconstruction, habit upgrades,
understanding neurology, emotional wellbeing
living in balance & holistic health
RECONCILIATION
INDIGENOUS TRUTH & MEANINGFUL ALLYSHIP
Truth and Reconciliation Commission
calls to action, Orange Shirt Day
appreciation vs appropriation
NARCISSISM - PATTERNS & PROTECTION
narcissism explained, identifying traits
practical strategies & avoiding the trap
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
disagreements don't have to be arguments,
altering relationship dynamics,
finding forgiveness, understanding anger,
respond vs react & healthy communication
RECONCILIATION WITH SELF
living from the inside out
become self-aware, emotional intelligence
healthy boundaries, how stress
affects the body,
transforming flight or fight into
rest and repair
REDress REFLECTIONS - TRANSFORMING TOMORROW
What is the Red Dress project
Murdered & Missing Indigenous Women
#MMIW, Calls to justice
personal growth for generational health
MINDFULNESS - PEACE IN THE PRESENT
conscious awareness, breath work,
getting started with meditation,
what are chakras,
science of energy, frequency & vibration,
strengthening intuition,
reset and renew in nature
HEAL WITH THE MEDICINE WHEEL
brief history,
create your personal path
live in harmony & nurture all aspects of self
ALSO AVAILABLE ...( short films / screenings and discussions )
I'm on a mission to change the way people see domestic violence,
to change the way victims see themselves and to eradicate
emotional mismanagement!
Alysha Main
Executive Director, Westdale Theatre
Cher is more than a speaker; she's a catalyst for conversation and change. Her confident stage presence, infectious enthusiasm, knowledge, and ability to connect with audiences make her an invaluable contributor to any event. She leaves an indelible mark, and inspires action on important issues. I wholeheartedly recommend Cher for any speaking engagement.
Mo Hagan CEO Canfitpro
You are an inspiration my friend and I have a new perspective for how I approach my morning and nighttime reflection.
Much gratitude!
Wayne - Aviva Canada
Thank you so much Cher for deepening our understanding of the purpose of Truth & Reconciliation. Your message has resonated deeply within us.
Michelle, PNSG
The Medicine Wheel presentation was very meaningful and empowering, thank you!.
SHAME TO SHINE AVAILABLE...
The City & The City Books, Ottawa St Hamilton
Iroqrafts - Six Nations
Art & You inc. Arts Centre - Grimsby
or email below
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